I understand that it is wrong to kiss or touch a woman that is not your lawful spouse but my question is : does it break the fast to touch, kiss, or do any non sexual acts with her ?

I Love a person who already has a wife (his wife also knows that) and he loves me too.we want to get married after telling his wife about it.but we cant inform this to our parents.because we both know that this relation is impossible to accept by them.we tried to stop this relation.we tried to not talk to each other.but our love is grown stronger even without seeing or talking,then we realise we cant separate .But we dont want our relation to go in a haram.So we really want to make our relation halal.even its for sometime or whatever.we want to live in a halal way.just like an islamic couple

Is long distance relationship between non mehrams haram even if they talk online only and I am in high school right now and we fear to involve any parents to do nikah because these days parents are more focused on education and they think that we should get educated first and then get married but we have intentions of marriage is the relationship permissible ?

I'm muslim and im in a relationship with a Muslim girl. And our distance is too much.that's we we never meet each other. I know our distance was too much but our understanding was so perfect. I want to nikah with her after getting a job.But for this moment i have only 3-4 years.will allah together us?🫠

I have a long distance relationship with a Muslim girl. We usually message each other and meet once every one or two month. Just talking and eating together nothing else. I told her that I will not talk to her during Ramadan and will call her after Ramadan. What I want to know is Is our relationship permissible? Although I want to do Nikah with her, I can't afford financially now and Still in school with No work or Income. What Should I do in this situation?

My family has many uncles and aunts and It is not possible to contact with them frequently and they live very far away from us. Will it be severing the ties of kinship if I don't contact with some of them or is it enough to contact with some of them? Which people actually deserves the ties of kinship most? Jazakallah Khairan

I have been told that my husband has been affected by sihr. I came home one day and i caught him taking drugs so i confronted him. He chased me in the house while i held my daughter and kept punching me in my face and hitting me. He smashed my phone and started swearing vile swears infront of my children about me. His family say its not him its the sihr but is it even possible for sihr to make you act like that or are they making excuses?

I have relationship with a girl for about two years. We just text each other. And we promised each other not to come close to each other until we marry And by the grace of Allah we're fullfilling it and we will insha'Allah . And as far as I know these type of relationships are not permissible if one thinks he may fall to the worst sin (zina). Is it permissible because it protects both of us from many sins (e.g masturbation,pornography etc)?

السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ > I'm in love with a man since the last two years. We're **18 and 19** > currently. Is it possible for us to get nikahfied after a few months > in order to not get sins because we talk to each other? We just want > to refrain from getting more sins. We want to get **nikahfied > secretly** and have a proper nikah in the presence of our parents > and relatives after we complete my studies. Meaning after 4 to 6 > years. We don't really plan to indulge in sexual activities. We have a > few **witness available** already. Kindly advice in accordance with **Hanafi** Fiqh, it will help us to arrive at a final decision.

Assalam o Alaikum I`m here to tell my sins and ...... the problems I'm facing. I was in a haram relationship and my mom caught me last night talking to him this was my first time ... I was never like this I was a sweet, innocent girl. I want to repent of my sins. So my question is will my mother and Allah ever forgive me

Assalamualikum brother and sister, I am so ashamed to ask for a solution to my problem, but I hope I can get an answer. When I was like around 12 years old, I was sexually harassed by a married man. That time, I didn't knew anything about sex or about kissing. So, I was harassed for a few months and I never protested or pushed away that man because I didn't knew what he was doing to me. The only that I knew was that I hated what he was doing to me. After a few years after the sexual harassment, I got to know about sex and began to regret everything that he did to me. I began to feel impure. We never had sex or he never saw me naked. But he did touch me and that made me feel so impure that I couldn't stop him from doing those things to me because I didn't know what he was doing to me. After that, I began to get high sexual urges. I tried to stop myself, but I had friends who would read books containing mature scenes. I began to read books with mature scenes and my sexual urges began to rise more. I didn't want to have sex before marriage as it is haram, so I began to write books where I wrote highly sexual scenes. I even watched videos with highly mature scenes. A few months after I wrote those books and published it only under my pen name, I felt guilty and I stopped writing those books. I even stopped watching those mature scene videos and I kept myself busy which is why I stopped having such urges. But recently, I am 18 and even though I am busy, I get really sexual urges. I don't want to commit the sin of having sex before marriage, but, I don't want to get married right now. I know that marriage is a solution but I feel like I am too young for marriage and I feel so impure and ashamed of myself. I even feel like when I get married in future, Insha Allah, my husband might hate me. I don't know what to do, so it would be helpful if you have an answer for me.

I really want to know if i'm doing something haram. I like this boy and he likes me too, we chat to eachother but i don't look him as my boyfriend, were just close friends, we want to marry eatcchother in the future. Am i doing something haram?

I met an atheist girl online about 2 months playing video games and we got along pretty well very quickly. Quite quickly the situation got seriously and we had thoughts about meeting up (she is in another country). This is when I brought up things like religion and parents as I saw this going into a more serious direction. She said that she was willing to learn about the religion. She even bought an English translated Quran and asked me questions about it here and there. Despite her willingness to commit, I knew that we had to essentially ‘date’ beforehand. I knew that this is forbidden and even if I tried to keep it halal, I had a feeling it would fall into haram at some point. I would need to date her for a couple of years as I’m not ready nor is she ready to marry. Then of course this wouldn’t work without ever planning a meet up. I like her a lot. The talks we have are amazing. We had plan to meet up but I left before we ever did. I told her that it is against my religion and called it quits before anything major happened. There is also the less major issue which is parents. She is currently atheist but has looked into religion before. There is also an ethic difference which I’m sure my parents won’t be happy about. I would like their consent with the person i do end up marrying. Did i do the wrong thing? She was willing to learn and become Muslim. My biggest concern is that I just won’t meet anyone that I get along with like I do with her. Was she written for me? Or was it a test from Allah?

My question is, is being in a relationship fine if there is nothing haram in it but just a tag. We do nothing haram, nor meet but it's just that there's this relationship tag. Also please let me know from what point a relationship is considered haram.

We knew each other from social media and we have been talking for years.. A few males and a few females.. (im a female) **Expect one male, all others are muslims..** and its noted that now when i talk to them, i dont feel happy anymore.. like it causes me stress.. but i also dont want to stay apart from them.. however when i leave, it gives me a peace of mind. **What do u think i should do?** And when i talk to them.. My imaan becomes weak :( tho i still havent figured out why.. and there is always debates going on with the muslim friends and non muslim friend about why he should become a muslim.. tho they insult each other while they are at it.. and he debates why they should not trust on the religion.. its been stressful These days I have been getting more interested in Islam Alhamdhu'lilah and because of a post i saw that says we shouldnt talk to opposite genders.. I cutted my contact with them.. but i feel bad.. **so i dont really know what to do..** **Is talking to them Haram?** we treat each other as Family..like brothers and sisters and we know each other's all the secrets and thoughts.. so on.. **So what do you think i should do in this situation?** wasalaam Alaikum Wa'rahumathaullah Wa barakaath

It is very clear that Quran forbids intercourse between man and woman before marriage. However, when it comes to **relationships**, the only close reference I have from Qu'ran is that we should "lower our gaze and guard our sexual organ", but so far I didn't see any **direct** forbiddence in being in a relationship with a girl which does not involve any haram interactions. There are many many rulings on dating and relationships by various people, fatwās, and scholars, such as [this](http://caliph.wordpress.com/articles/boy-girl/) . But very little citation is **directly from Quran**. I want to say that I trust only in Allah and his Angels, the Holy Quran, and Prophet Muhammad, but not in any other worldly people when it comes to how to live my life. So my question is, is there any direction citation from the Holy Quran, or Prophet Muhammad (but no more than these two) that talks explicitly about: 1) What are haram interactions apart from anything to do with sexual organs according to Quran? (Such as, kissing, holding hands, cuddling, meeting in private etc) 2) Forbidding relationship between men and women which does not involve any haram interactions before marriage.

I don't really understand why it is haram to have a relationship with the opposite sex (with no sexual intercourse), or even just be friends. If I meet a girl, I would like to get to know her before getting married, and risk a miserable life with an incompatible partner.

One of my friend never had an elder nor a younger sibling and spent most of his life alone(without a sibling). He wants to have siblings. **So my question is will it be possible for him in Jannah if he hopefully reaches there ?**

My husband and I have been separated for 4 months, after he got arrested. He was on bail and was not allowed to return to the family home. In this time I have demanded that he gives me talaaq (divorce). Finally he gave me talaaq 2 weeks ago. My question is do I still need to observe the idaat (waiting) period as we have had no sexual relations in this time.

NewMuslims.com lists five qualities Muslim men should look for when seeking a wife: 1. Taqwa (piety), 2. Affectionate nature, 3. Obedience, 4. Patience, 5. Contentment. If a Muslim woman was interested in a particular man becoming her future husband, it would therefore be good for her to demonstrate these qualities to him. It seems difficult to demonstrate a willingness to become an obedient wife, however. **Question**: How can a Muslim woman indicate her willingness to be an obedient wife to a prospective husband? My impression is that Muslim men seem to value obedience. RomanticMuslim.com 7 Things Your Muslim Husband Won’t Tell You writes "above all, he desires your respect" and even quotes Qur'an 3:43 "...So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband’s] absence what Allah would have them guard...".