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Are we still married if we seperated without divorce?
Aslem walkuim I married a girl about 3 years ago the marriage lasted for about a year then we had a lot of arguments so we separated (we never got divorced we both went our separate ways) after 2 years off no communication me and her started back talking! My question is are we still married as...
Aslem walkuim
I married a girl about 3 years ago the marriage lasted for about a year then we had a lot of arguments so we separated (we never got divorced we both went our separate ways) after 2 years off no communication me and her started back talking! My question is are we still married as far as deen? If not what are the requirements for us to get back together?
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Long distance relationship
Is long distance relationship between non mehrams haram even if they talk online only and I am in high school right now and we fear to involve any parents to do nikah because these days parents are more focused on education and they think that we should get educated first and then get married but we...
Is long distance relationship between non mehrams haram even if they talk online only and I am in high school right now and we fear to involve any parents to do nikah because these days parents are more focused on education and they think that we should get educated first and then get married but we have intentions of marriage is the relationship permissible ?
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Praying to marry someone who rejected me
Assalamualaikum, I am in love with my cousin's daughter. She is already in a haram relationship with some other guy. When I told her that I liked her she rejected me but I still love her truly. I am constantly praying to marry her. Is it okay to pray for marrying her?
Assalamualaikum,
I am in love with my cousin's daughter. She is already in a haram relationship with some other guy. When I told her that I liked her she rejected me but I still love her truly. I am constantly praying to marry her. Is it okay to pray for marrying her?
Ibtisham Hafiz
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Can I ask Allah for a religious wife but who has high libido?
Assalamualaikum brothers and sisters I'm 20 years old I have a high libido and unable to control myself from watching bad video's and masturbate I'm trying to quit this for my future wife and to become a good Muslim Alhamdulillah I'm clean for 3 days in this blessed month of Ramazan is helping me Wh...
Assalamualaikum brothers and sisters
I'm 20 years old
I have a high libido and unable to control myself from watching bad video's and masturbate I'm trying to quit this for my future wife and to become a good Muslim
Alhamdulillah I'm clean for 3 days in this blessed month of Ramazan is helping me
When I get married I want to love my wife very much both physically and mentally
I want a wife who is somewhat shy but not much
Since I have a high libido I want a wife who has same interest and high libido like me. Like both our sex drive to be equal
I have so many things and fetishes that I want to do with my wife
Not anything Haram though
Can I ask Allah for a wife who is good in deen and also has interest in sex life
Am I a sinner to ask this?
Jazakallah
Sid
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Recording and listening wife moans during sex
For those men who live abroad away from their wives for their jobs, can they record their wife's moans during sex with him, and listen to it when he is away from her, is it allowed in islam as he is listening to his own wife's moan rather than any non mahram women's. Is it allowed?
For those men who live abroad away from their wives for their jobs, can they record their wife's moans during sex with him, and listen to it when he is away from her, is it allowed in islam as he is listening to his own wife's moan rather than any non mahram women's. Is it allowed?
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Having doubts regarding my marriage
Assalamualaikum! I'm a 24-year-old woman, and my parents have arranged a marriage for me with a man who is well-educated, financially stable, and living abroad. Moving abroad aligns with my career goals, but I don't feel attracted to him and there's no spark between us. I want to decline this arrang...
Assalamualaikum! I'm a 24-year-old woman, and my parents have arranged a marriage for me with a man who is well-educated, financially stable, and living abroad. Moving abroad aligns with my career goals, but I don't feel attracted to him and there's no spark between us. I want to decline this arrangement but am uncertain. Should I compromise on love when everything else seems ideal? I'm really confused and need advice.
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Would we able to meet the Non Muslim person whom you love in jannah?
Asslamalikum Alhamdulillah i am a Muslim and I live in India. all Of a sudden I fall in love with my girl best friend who is a non Muslim (Hindu) and because of differeces of cast we cant unite. I love her so much but since Muslims can't marry a women until she believes so I can't have her as my wif...
Asslamalikum
Alhamdulillah i am a Muslim and I live in India. all Of a sudden I fall in love with my girl best friend who is a non Muslim (Hindu) and because of differeces of cast we cant unite.
I love her so much but since Muslims can't marry a women until she believes so I can't have her as my wife. So my question is WOULD WE ABLE TO MEET THE NON MUSLIM ONES IN PARADISE AS I LOVE HER VERY MUCH BUT I CANT BE WITH HER IN THIS WORLDY LIFE.
I am very depressed these days and I have turned my self to Allah the creator and but I can't find the solution to it.
SINCE ALLAH SAID I WILL GRANT EVERYTHING TO MY SERVANTS IN PARADISE SO WILL HE GRANT ME THE PERSON WHOM I LOVE IN PARADISE?
Omar khan
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Rights and obligations of spouses if they still live with their parents
I learned from a previous fatwa that if you are a student and are not financially able to get married, you can still get married and both live with their parents until he is financially stable. My question is whether all rights and obligations of the spouses continue to exist during this time or whe...
I learned from a previous fatwa that if you are a student and are not financially able to get married, you can still get married and both live with their parents until he is financially stable. My question is whether all rights and obligations of the spouses continue to exist during this time or whether this circumstance changes anything. Specifically, I am asking whether the husband has the right over his wife to have intercourse with her during this time. If not, please provide proof.
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Why Allah don't guide or show path to the misguided if he loves more than a mother?
I believe Allah loves his beings more than their mothers and at the same time I believe he is Al-Adl( the just). I want to know why he not guide the people by putting them in situation where they can learn about Allah. Why he judges us when he doesn't guide us when we were doing wrong. Please I need...
I believe Allah loves his beings more than their mothers and at the same time I believe he is Al-Adl( the just). I want to know why he not guide the people by putting them in situation where they can learn about Allah. Why he judges us when he doesn't guide us when we were doing wrong.
Please I need answer.
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Does this argument refute Islam?
The Qur'an is full of verses where it tells you that Allah loves you if X. That is, on one condition. For example, in Sura 3 Ayah 32, it is said that "Allah does not love those who do not believe". And, that Allah's love is conditional, makes me think something... Allah is supposed to be the highest...
The Qur'an is full of verses where it tells you that Allah loves you if X. That is, on one condition.
For example, in Sura 3 Ayah 32, it is said that "Allah does not love those who do not believe".
And, that Allah's love is conditional, makes me think something...
Allah is supposed to be the highest conceivable being, isn't He? If you can find a being who has more perfection than Allah, that being is the one who is God (not the other).
For example, if there is a being more perfect than Allah, Allah would no longer be God, because God by definition is perfection and the absolute.
Okay, so God is the perfection of good. OK, and the ultimate moral perfection, love, right? Because there is no greater expression of kindness than love.
So, if Allah is God, he should show the highest degree of love possible and no being could surpass him (since he is God). But the Qur'an says that Allah's love is partial and conditional, the expression of his love is not total and perfect (he does not love everyone, and he only loves you if you repent, and go with him).
If Allah does not show the highest degree of love possible, he is not perfect, then he is not God?
In Christianity it is not so, Christ loves even his enemies. Christ died on the cross loving those who crucified and killed Him. Hence the famous phrase "Father, forgive them, they do not know what they are doing".
Or even in the Sermon on the Mount, where Christ said that "blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven."Or "blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be satisfied."
The love of the Christian God is absolute and unconditional, God loves us all.
How is this argument refuted?
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Is it permissible to invent these kinds of worships in Islam?
Asalamalaikum. People invent endless worships but obviously based on arguments from the religion. For example. There is no hadith that says supplicate to Allah to do well in school exams. But it goes without saying that man is allowed to invent this worship because there is a hadith that says ask Al...
Asalamalaikum. People invent endless worships but obviously based on arguments from the religion. For example. There is no hadith that says supplicate to Allah to do well in school exams. But it goes without saying that man is allowed to invent this worship because there is a hadith that says ask Allah for table salt if you need it. I am not talking about saying that it is sunnah of the messenger to this and that act at this and that time because obviously that would be bidah. I am simply talking about inventing new ways to express love, respect and gratitude towards Allah.
Is it permissible to invent these kinds of worships in Islam that i have written below? Please look at the examples below. For example: Someone says that he will stand for an hour as a sign of respect and gratitude to Allah? Or someone says he will walk for two hours as a sign of love and respect for Allah. Or someone says that he will express his respect and love for Allah by sitting on the couch for two hours. Or someone says I will express my love and respect for Allah by thinking for an hour only about religion and Allah. Or someone says that for an hour I will write subhanallah, alhamdulilah repeatedly to express love and respect for Allah. Because there is a hadith that says that works are evaluated according to the intention. If the intention is good, then what is the problem here?
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Young muslim boys lust problem
Asalam Aleykum, eveyone. As a 15 years old muslim boy, I face many problems controlling my lust for women. I really want to get married and perform my fetishes on my woman in the future of course, but I want to control myself from now until I get married in thr future insh allah. Is there any dua or...
Asalam Aleykum, eveyone.
As a 15 years old muslim boy, I face many problems controlling my lust for women. I really want to get married and perform my fetishes on my woman in the future of course, but I want to control myself from now until I get married in thr future insh allah. Is there any dua or islamic perform to help me overcome my intensified lust for women?
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Relationships before marriage
I love a girl, i have no bad intentions about her. I just wat to to marry her. There is no lust, not even a slightest bad intention. I have only pure intentions just want to marry her no sexual thing, no, no touching, nothing bad. I just want to know if it is wrong or what is right way?
I love a girl, i have no bad intentions about her. I just wat to to marry her. There is no lust, not even a slightest bad intention. I have only pure intentions just want to marry her no sexual thing, no, no touching, nothing bad. I just want to know if it is wrong or what is right way?
MUHAMMAD KASHIF RATHER
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Love towards non-Muslim family?
After months of studying Islam i decided to become the Muslim.My family didn't have any problem with that.I was reading Quran yesterday and i found this ayat > You will not find a people who believe in Allah and the Last Day having affection for those who oppose Allah and His Messenger, even if they...
After months of studying Islam i decided to become the Muslim.My family didn't have any problem with that.I was reading Quran yesterday and i found this ayat
> You will not find a people who believe in Allah and the Last Day having affection for those who oppose Allah and His Messenger, even if they were their fathers or their sons or their brothers or their kindred. Those - He has decreed within their hearts faith and supported them with spirit from Him. And We will admit them to gardens beneath which rivers flow, wherein they abide eternally. Allah is pleased with them, and they are pleased with Him - those are the party of Allah . Unquestionably, the party of Allah - they are the successful.>
Does this mean i am not allowed to show affection to my mother,father and my sisters?I love them so much.
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is the marriage valid?
if a man and a women commit a zina act together by doing a sexual act for e.g. the girl performing oral sex and the man touching her breast but they both did not have sex with eachother before marriage and afterwards they get their nikkah done they ask Allah forgiveness after they got their nikkah d...
if a man and a women commit a zina act together by doing a sexual act for e.g. the girl performing oral sex and the man touching her breast but they both did not have sex with eachother before marriage and afterwards they get their nikkah done they ask Allah forgiveness after they got their nikkah done a couple days later from committing the sin/haraam act before marriage do they have to do their nikkah again? please help as I am in desperate need for an answer and I wanted to know if the marriage is valid or not with eachother.
I would like to know what the prophet s.a.w. said about this in reference and what Allah mentions about it too if you can please with hadith and quran quotations.
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In love with a non muslim girl who I want to convert to Islam - is this halal?
I'm actually 14 and the girl I love is 12. She goes to the same school as me and I love her a lot. I don't want to touch and stuff just talk to her and see her. Is it okay If I go up to her and introduce myself, I really want to convert her to muslim by telling more of Islam. And if she really loves...
I'm actually 14 and the girl I love is 12. She goes to the same school as me and I love her a lot. I don't want to touch and stuff just talk to her and see her. Is it okay If I go up to her and introduce myself, I really want to convert her to muslim by telling more of Islam. And if she really loves me back (because she looked at me with her friends) she will listen to me.
Also we won't convert because she loves me but she loves Allah, and Allah doesn't have a problem with people who convert
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Am I a kafir if I get married to a non Muslim man?
I am a Muslim woman and I plan to get married to a man who is agnostic. I will not force him to become a Muslim but if he does then that’s good. If not, that’s okay to me too. I love him and I don’t want to force anything on him. My question is just if the marriage will be valid and will I still rem...
I am a Muslim woman and I plan to get married to a man who is agnostic. I will not force him to become a Muslim but if he does then that’s good. If not, that’s okay to me too. I love him and I don’t want to force anything on him. My question is just if the marriage will be valid and will I still remain a Muslim?
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Marriage in Judgement-day
Allah Almighty has said people will get what they wish for in Jannah or Heaven. What if you wish for a woman who is someone else's wife? And The woman also want to be with you, What will be the decision of Allah? Plz answer me with Proves.
Allah Almighty has said people will get what they wish for in Jannah or Heaven. What if you wish for a woman who is someone else's wife? And The woman also want to be with you, What will be the decision of Allah? Plz answer me with Proves.
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can we can confess our love in islam
assalamualaikum i am sorry if there is any mistake i am a new user please kindly help me out i am in trouble condition **a muslim guy had proposed me days earlier he is a hafiz and a relegious person ,i too have feeling for him is it permissable in islam for me to confess my love towards him and tel...
assalamualaikum
i am sorry if there is any mistake i am a new user please kindly help me out
i am in trouble condition **a muslim guy had proposed me days earlier he is a hafiz and a relegious person ,i too have feeling for him is it permissable in islam for me to confess my love towards him and tell him to avoid all the haram activities like looking each other,smiling ,dating or even talking each other .
recently i came to hear boyfriend -girlfriend relation is prohbited in islam but we both are only 16 we cant get marry at this age due to law (in our country marriage is possible only after 21yrs ) *so is it allowed for me to confess my love and wait till the age without being into boyfriend girlfriend relation***
please help me out i am totally confused .
looking forward for an early answer please ..thank you
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What is the best dua to make to protect you against the consequences of something you’ve done?
I’ve made a really bad mistake recently and I’m terrified of the consequences of what’s going to happen to me. I’ve become severely depressed and the only thing that’s keeping me going is my belief in Allah and Islam. Please can you tell me a dua that’ll help me through this, one that’ll protect me...
I’ve made a really bad mistake recently and I’m terrified of the consequences of what’s going to happen to me. I’ve become severely depressed and the only thing that’s keeping me going is my belief in Allah and Islam. Please can you tell me a dua that’ll help me through this, one that’ll protect me from the consequences of this awful mistake I made that has ruined my life ,one that’ll help restore my peace of mind and one that’ll ensure everything is ok. I am genuine in my repentance for all the wrongdoings I’ve committed. Please help me I don’t think I’m going to recover from this.
ashadu an la ilaha illa'llah wa ashadu anna muhammadan abduhu wa rasululu
lā ʾilāha ʾillā-llāh, muḥammadur-rasūlu-llāh
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