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What are the boundaries of existence and non-existence in Buddhism?
We find plenty of similar discussions in the Theravada tradition, cf. (for example) kv6.1 or kv5.5 kv5.5 https://suttacentral.net/kv5.5/en/aung-rhysdavids?lang=en In my answer to the following question https://buddhism.stackexchange.com/questions/45940/ I mention in passing that (fantasy) hobbits ar...
We find plenty of similar discussions in the Theravada tradition, cf. (for example) kv6.1 or kv5.5
kv5.5 https://suttacentral.net/kv5.5/en/aung-rhysdavids?lang=en
In my answer to the following question https://buddhism.stackexchange.com/questions/45940/ I mention in passing that (fantasy) hobbits are non-existents. Why? Because they are not subject to cause and effect, because they do not momentarily disintegrate, and because they leave no trace on the world. 'Unreal' and 'non-existent', to me, are synonyms.
This leads onto a thread of comments discussing the putative existence of hobbits, hypotheticals, and whether or not one can distinguish the existence of hobbits from, for example, chairs.
My grounding in this is presentation of the divisions of the selfless in as found in volume three of Jam-yang-shay-pa’s (1648-1721) "Great Exposition of Tenets" (there is a commentary on this in Chapter 1 of Hopkins "Meditation on Emptiness"). While the text itself is a Mahayana text rooted in Madhyamaka, volume three enumerates some important aspects of Buddhist reality, primarily following Abhidharma stemming from the Sarvāstivāda.
What do we find? The first is the division into that which is (skt: sat), and that which is not (skt: asat). The word that describes this dichotomy is 'reality' or 'truth', or 'existence' (skt: satya, pali: sacca) - but 'existence' here is not to be confused with 'bhava' - because permanents (Pali: nicca) are sat, while nicca are not bhava (Bhava are things - compounded, while nicca are absences, and are uncompounded. Both nicca (as absences) and things can be found, therefore they are 'sat'). If we deny nicca, then we deny cessations - if we deny cessations, we have denied the third noble truth.
Classical examples of non-existents are a hare's horn, turtle hair, clothing made from turtle hair. Things like a reflection's laugh. Also, inherently existing phenomena, or a self-created god, or an omnipotent being, or permanent products, or souls.
So, the questions are: Are fictional hobbits 'sat' or 'asat'?
Are hypotheticals 'sat' or 'asat'? How about a chair, or an elephant? What about the constant, π (pi)?
I might be wrong - and am happy to be corrected, but I would consider hypotheticals, hobbits, constants, abstract objects (platonic abstracts) to be **asat**. Why? Because they are fabrications, narratives, stories - the stories they belong to are **sat**, and the stories themselves can instruct and inform us, but the objects in those stories are **asat** : they do not exist, they are not true, they are not real.
If we allow for hobbits to exist, and if our rationale for such allowance similarly pervades all non-existents then we must also allow for omnipotent, self-created gods to exist, and souls. If we do that, then we cannot differentiate between what is a noble truth and what is not, and Dharma no longer holds truth, but is merely another story.
Non-existent things, being unreal, they are both selfless, and are uncompounded. Being uncompounded they are neither able to create causes nor suffer them: They are not dependent arisings (as they are not subject to cause and effect) but they are dependent designations.
Am I wrong? How so?
**Addendum** -
My question is concerned with conventional truths. I'm not attempting to establish or discuss objective/intrinisc truths.
- If we allow for (fantasy) hobbits and if such rationale similarly pervades all non-existents, then we must allow for souls (because our reasons for how hobbits can exist do not exclude how souls can exist).
- If we have allowed for souls, we do not have
the three marks of existence. Because: anatta
- If we do not have the three marks, we
do not have insight into anattā / anātman
- If we do not have insight
then we do not have the three higher trainings (tisikkhā/triśikṣā).
- Without the three
higher trainings there is no noble truth of the path.
- Without the
truth of the path there is no Buddha dharma.
- Without Buddha dharma
there is no refuge, nor is there the awakening of enlightenment.
*(amended in light of a good point made by Yeshe Tenley below)*
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anapanasati: nimitta or ambient light?
I have started facing a weird problem which I wouldn't earlier. While meditating during daytime, I sometimes doubt whether I am actually experiencing *nimitta* or my *vittaka* has waned and, instead of making way for *ekaggata*, my closed eyes are in fact picking up ambient light. This inevitably ke...
I have started facing a weird problem which I wouldn't earlier.
While meditating during daytime, I sometimes doubt whether I am actually experiencing *nimitta* or my *vittaka* has waned and, instead of making way for *ekaggata*, my closed eyes are in fact picking up ambient light.
This inevitably keeps me from attaining stable *anapana-nimitta* in that session and the progression plateaus, irrespective of how effortless maintaining concentration has become. That leads to restlessness and I either don't feel like keeping my *aditthana*, or if I can nullify that I emerge from the session somewhat disappointed that I didn't utilize the session well.
I'd like to clarify that I not seeking any *jhanic* factor or for *anapana-nimitta* to emerge, and I can attain *anapana-nimitta* and subsequently absorption for desired time period before progressing to the higher *jhanas* during night-time because I know I can't be confounded by ambient light...
So, other than only sitting at nighttime, which isn't really a solution, what do I do? Any pointers?
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What's the role of "conceit" in the Dhamma?
I read the following on the internet: > Some rules assume the conceit, "I am". Importantly, Buddhist rules do > not. For example, take the first three rules of MN8: > > MN8:12.2: ‘Others will be cruel, but here we will not be cruel.’ > > MN8:12.3: ‘Others will kill living creatures, but here we will...
I read the following on the internet:
> Some rules assume the conceit, "I am". Importantly, Buddhist rules do
> not. For example, take the first three rules of MN8:
>
> MN8:12.2: ‘Others will be cruel, but here we will not be cruel.’
>
> MN8:12.3: ‘Others will kill living creatures, but here we will not
> kill living creatures.’
>
>MN8:12.4: ‘Others will steal, but here we will
> not steal.’
What exactly is conceit? Does the above quote include conceit? If so, why? If not, why not?
Paraloka Dhamma Dhatu
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Please help me to better understand the simile of the turner for the first part of the anapanasati instructions
Can anyone post a video of what a "bhamakāro" from ancient India would be doing? If not, can anyone explain very clearly what we are talking about in terms of the tool that would have been used, the process, and what the person would have been doing? Pali: > Seyyathāpi bhikkhave dakkho **bhamakāro**...
Can anyone post a video of what a "bhamakāro" from ancient India would be doing? If not, can anyone explain very clearly what we are talking about in terms of the tool that would have been used, the process, and what the person would have been doing?
Pali:
> Seyyathāpi bhikkhave dakkho **bhamakāro** vā bhamakārantevāsī vā dīghaṃ vā
> añchanto dīghaṃ añchāmīti pajānāti, rassaṃ vā añchanto rassaṃ
> añchāmīti pajānāti, evameva kho bhikkhave bhikkhu dīghaṃ vā assasanto
> dīghaṃ assasāmīti pajānāti. Dīghaṃ vā passasanto dīghaṃ passasāmīti
> pajānāti.
Translation of MN 10 from Thanissaro Bhikkhu:
> Just as a skilled **turner** or his apprentice, when making a long turn,
> discerns, 'I am making a long turn,' or when making a short turn
> discerns, 'I am making a short turn'; in the same way the monk, when
> breathing in long, discerns, 'I am breathing in long'; or breathing
> out long, he discerns, 'I am breathing out long'
Translation of MN 10 from Sujato:
> It’s like a deft **carpenter** or carpenter’s apprentice. When making a
> deep cut they know: ‘I’m making a deep cut,’ and when making a shallow
> cut they know: ‘I’m making a shallow cut.’ ...
Adamokkha
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Feeling scared/ having aversion to looking at "pretty" women
I have been doing buddhist practices and ***trying*** to keep the precepts for a few months, after an intensive retreat. I have been noticing recently that I have automatically started to avoid looking at any women that are potentially attractive. This is almost instinctive and I go out of my way to...
I have been doing buddhist practices and ***trying*** to keep the precepts for a few months, after an intensive retreat. I have been noticing recently that I have automatically started to avoid looking at any women that are potentially attractive. This is almost instinctive and I go out of my way to avoid looking at them as much as possible. Also, I can see that I do not find most women attractive now, like in the sense of having that primal urge to have sex with them. Instead there is a subtle judgement like 'Hey, she looks pretty' but mostly without any deeper lust. While watching porn (I do it compulsively unfortunately) I have just a few moments of actual lust during the whole session, and for the most part, even the prettiest women there have stopped appealing sexually to me. But there are some women though, in real life, for who I am like "MY GOD she is too beautiful!" and I feel that strong sexual urge (and suffering along with it) unlike with all others.
I want to ask, is this normal and expected part of the practice? Not that I am complaining - I am pretty happy with it tbh coz when I don't jerk off for a few days I feel my mind stronger, calmer, happier and have energy to get stuff done. I am worried though if my avoidance is rooted in aversion to feel the sexual urge and the suffering? If this is indeed good, are there any other practical tips (other than meditation) on how to take this further - to remove all lust- and the slavery that it carries?
Kindly give your insights. Please do not hold back on technical aspects, give me as accurate and precise answer as possible as I understand the formal terminology of the sutras etc. Any responses are appreciated.
Thank you
zantamaduno
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Questions on Cakkavala in Buddhist Cosmology
I happen to come across the description of Cakkavala as per Buddhist Cosmology from the palikanon website in the link [here][1]. After going through the information in that link, I have below questions and thought of posting it here to get an answer from the experts here. 1. Where is Mount Sineru lo...
I happen to come across the description of Cakkavala as per Buddhist Cosmology from the palikanon website in the link here . After going through the information in that link, I have below questions and thought of posting it here to get an answer from the experts here.
1. Where is Mount Sineru located, and can we see it with our eyes?
2. Does a Cakkavala constitute a galaxy or does it imply our observable universe or something else?
3. Are there finite or infinite number of Cakkavala's?
4. This link here mentions that the Buddha is only born in this Cakkavala, my question is why not in other Cakkavala's?
5. Is the physical universe a part of Cakkavala or is it vice versa?
I get that these sort of questions are amongst the imponderables, but curious to know.
Waiting to hear from the experts.
Nithin Manmohan
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Why are Concepts not Impermanent?
Why are Concepts not Impermanent? I found the below explanation in another forum. Are they Permanent? or not both? > Conventional reality (sammuti sacca/ pannatti) is just a concept and > not real. Non-real dhammas don’t exist and therefore cannot be anicca > or dukkha. > > According to Abhdhamma: >...
Why are Concepts not Impermanent? I found the below explanation in another forum. Are they Permanent? or not both?
> Conventional reality (sammuti sacca/ pannatti) is just a concept and
> not real. Non-real dhammas don’t exist and therefore cannot be anicca
> or dukkha.
>
> According to Abhdhamma:
>
> - dhamma = paramata + pannatti
> - paramata = sankhata + asankhata
> - sankhata = citta + cetasika + rupa
> - asnkhata = nibbana
> - dhamma = citta + cetasika + rupa + nibbana + pannatti
>
> All the dhammas are anatta. Anatta means devoid of
> essence/self/ownership/hegemony.
>
> Only the sankhata (compounded) is anicca-dukkha. Nibbana and Pannatti
> are anatta only.
>
> Nibbana is real but not compounded. Therefore not anicca-dukkha.
> Pannatti is non-real. Therefore not anicca-dukkha.
> **In Theravada, Concept is an object (unreal object).** It is not the
> Concept-formation of our mind. Mind and mental factors that form a
> concept do arise and cease, but not the Concept.
> The conceptualizing in mind is the impermanent one, but not the
> Conceptual-object of Conceptualizing-mind. **Pannatti is an object.** This
> fake object is perceived by the impermanent mind.
> The colors that the eye sees in a movie are real, but not the concept
> of “movie”. What is fake is the Object pointed by the Idea of “movie”.
> **What “Conceptualizing” points to, is the Concept.** It is a fake object
> that “Conceptualizing” points to.
>
> **The pointer exists, but “what is pointed” doesn’t exist.**
>
> So Concepts are not considered as anicca or dukkha.
Conventional Reality is not Impermanent!
Introduction to the Ultimacy (International Institute of Theravada)
Blake
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If hypothetically we lived in a time when a Buddha were to arise, how could we acknowledge him as being perfectly enlightened?
Assuming that in a hypothetical multitude of so-called "enlightened masters", a future Buddha would actually arise and we were alive at that time, how would we be able to recognize him? The question could also be valid for acknowledging an Arahant or any enlightened person not necessarily a Samma Sa...
Assuming that in a hypothetical multitude of so-called "enlightened masters", a future Buddha would actually arise and we were alive at that time, how would we be able to recognize him? The question could also be valid for acknowledging an Arahant or any enlightened person not necessarily a Samma Sambuddha, but would be much more interesting to answer it in the context of just before a new Sangha is formed, assuming a person declared that the Dhamma has been discovered again.
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Why the view "I am the owner of my karma" not contradict anatta?
Why did the Buddha advise lay people and monks to think, "*I am the owner of my kamma, the heir of my kamma; I have kamma as my origin, kamma as my relative, kamma as my resort; I will be the heir of whatever kamma, good or bad, that I do*" when this seems to contradict anatta? **Isn't thinking "*I...
Why did the Buddha advise lay people and monks to think, "*I am the owner of my kamma, the heir of my kamma; I have kamma as my origin, kamma as my relative, kamma as my resort; I will be the heir of whatever kamma, good or bad, that I do*" when this seems to contradict anatta?
**Isn't thinking "*I am X*" contradicting the teaching of anatta?**
There are suttas where the Buddha advised not to associate the five aggregates with the self e.g. SN 22.93 . **Aren't these two teachings contradictory? Isn't "*owner of kamma, heir of kamma*" a mental fabrication (sankhara) that we shouldn't associate our self with?**
Why didn't the Buddha advise lay people and monks to think, "*there's no self in this body and mind doing anything*"? What's the consequence of this view?
From AN 5.57 :
> “And for the sake of what benefit should a woman or a man, a
> householder or one gone forth, often reflect thus: ‘I am the owner of
> my kamma, the heir of my kamma; I have kamma as my origin, kamma as my
> relative, kamma as my resort; I will be the heir of whatever kamma,
> good or bad, that I do’? People engage in misconduct by body, speech,
> and mind. But when one often reflects upon this theme, such misconduct
> is either completely abandoned or diminished.
ruben2020
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Would you say the "dharma" explains "dharmas"
I remember the 1st book I read on Buddhism was about 'dharma' and that this has a few meanings, including, at least 'teaching' and 'element' (I suppose both of these are English glosses). > (Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism) The natural order of the universe; > natural law, cosmic order. > (Buddhism) The...
I remember the 1st book I read on Buddhism was about 'dharma' and that this has a few meanings, including, at least 'teaching' and 'element' (I suppose both of these are English glosses).
> (Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism) The natural order of the universe;
> natural law, cosmic order.
> (Buddhism) The teachings of the Buddha as a practice to
> be promulgated and taught.
These are different senses: teaching / reality.
Would you say that the teachings explain the elements?
By "explain" I mean show how they are caused.
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Follow up question (I'm posting enough!) is whether *either* the teachings are about something real, *or* what they are about the elements in the present.
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In Buddhism, is the effect ontologically independent of the cause?
In Buddhism, is the effect ontologically independent of the cause? I'm not asking if the effect makes the cause, which I think would amount to "ontic" dependence; but if the effect can exist without the cause. I can't remember the word for this, but take smoking. It causes cancer, and some people's...
In Buddhism, is the effect ontologically independent of the cause? I'm not asking if the effect makes the cause, which I think would amount to "ontic" dependence; but if the effect can exist without the cause. I can't remember the word for this, but take smoking. It causes cancer, and some people's cancer is caused by smoking: but not all cancers are from smoking.
And what has that got to do with 'emptiness', in any Mahayana tradition?
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What is the meaning of 'compounded' & 'uncompounded'?
Some texts speak of 'compounded' phenomena etc. - What does it mean for something to be 'compounded' or 'uncompounded'? For the former, does it just mean 'things that are composed of other things, which themselves are composed of smaller things, ad infinitum? For the latter, something 'indivisible'?...
Some texts speak of 'compounded' phenomena etc.
- What does it mean for something to be 'compounded' or 'uncompounded'?
For the former, does it just mean 'things that are composed of other things, which themselves are composed of smaller things, ad infinitum? For the latter, something 'indivisible'?
- If something is uncompounded, how can it exist as a 'thing'?
- Why are some things compounded or not? What makes them that way
cgtk
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How was it possible for some people to refute the Buddha face to face?
Bearing in mind that ignorance is in opposition to knowledge and the starting point for all the suffering, it seems still unbelievable that there were people contemporary to the Buddha that contradicted and refused his teaching. Considering that he was the culmination of human intellect and the embo...
Bearing in mind that ignorance is in opposition to knowledge and the starting point for all the suffering, it seems still unbelievable that there were people contemporary to the Buddha that contradicted and refused his teaching. Considering that he was the culmination of human intellect and the embodiment of pure knowledge, how is it possible to be in such stubborn opposition with the truth?
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What is the Interpretation of Parimukham in the context of Buddhist Meditation?
What is the interpretation of parimukham in the context of Buddhist Meditation? This seems to have different interpretation and translations? What are the different interpretations and translations and what might be the most correct interpretation according to different line of practice? How is the...
What is the interpretation of parimukham in the context of Buddhist Meditation?
This seems to have different interpretation and translations? What are the different interpretations and translations and what might be the most correct interpretation according to different line of practice? How is the particular interpretation rationalised?
Suminda Sirinath S. Dharmasena
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What are the limits of Buddhist compassion?
Compassion seems to be a central insight in Buddhist thought. When someone truly grasps Buddhist ideas they find themselves de-emphasizing their own ego, and understanding that they're interconnected with the world and everything in it. I've lived this way for a long time and have become very effect...
Compassion seems to be a central insight in Buddhist thought. When someone truly grasps Buddhist ideas they find themselves de-emphasizing their own ego, and understanding that they're interconnected with the world and everything in it.
I've lived this way for a long time and have become very effective at helping others, serving others, cultivating meaning in the lives of others. However, lately I'm realizing that this compassion is often not reciprocated, and at worst is taken advantage of as others know they can count on me to help them.
So I'm wondering if Buddhist thought has ever touched on this issue? How do we reconcile striving for unconditional compassion toward others, when many of those around us are happy to cheat, steal, and take from us?
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What is sex without attachment to sense pleasure actually like?
What is sex without attachment to sense pleasure actually like? Does it feel different? Do you only ever have sex to please the other person? I'm asking both about the relationship and the act itself. Clearly, you don't need celibacy to achieve jhana (some zen monks have wives). What is being renoun...
What is sex without attachment to sense pleasure actually like? Does it feel different? Do you only ever have sex to please the other person? I'm asking both about the relationship and the act itself.
Clearly, you don't need celibacy to achieve jhana (some zen monks have wives). What is being renounced if we continue to engage in sexual relationships? Would engagement in sex with oneself (only) be proof that one cannot obtain the jhanas? etc..
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> For achieving these absorptions, the overcoming of the five
> hindrances [including sensual desire], at least temporarily, is a preliminary condition. It is
> especially in the context of achieving the absorptions that the Buddha
> often mentions the five hindrances in his discourses.
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Is it necessary to study Abhidhamma?
From a purely Theravada perspective, how much important is it to read and know Abhidhamma? Is the knowledge of Sutta Pitaka enough to realize nirvana?
From a purely Theravada perspective, how much important is it to read and know Abhidhamma? Is the knowledge of Sutta Pitaka enough to realize nirvana?
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Do Buddhists think other religions are wrong?
I appreciate that religion can be many things but I want to consider the more [soteriological][1] aspects of religion. If we can take as a premise that religions including Buddhism have a strong concern about salvation - this would mean that Buddhism and other religions have competing views on this...
I appreciate that religion can be many things but I want to consider the more soteriological aspects of religion. If we can take as a premise that religions including Buddhism have a strong concern about salvation - this would mean that Buddhism and other religions have competing views on this matter. Do Buddhist texts and Buddhist teachers think that other religions are wholly wrong in this regard or maybe partially right or even perhaps everyone is correct in some sense?
I'm particularly interested in references for reasonable authoritative texts or quotes from teachers either ancient or contemporary. Also are certain schools of Buddhism more open to other religious views and perhaps other ones more exclusive in their views?
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Advice for a prostitute, from the wisdom of Buddha
I consider the profession unwise and harmful to all. But I'm looking for a compelling argument against it. PS. Maybe "compelling" is too strong a word.
I consider the profession unwise and harmful to all. But I'm looking for a compelling argument against it.
PS. Maybe "compelling" is too strong a word.
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Narcissism insights in Buddhism
I've been recently observing that I am surrounded by a lot of narcissistic people which include all kinds of relationships friends, family, coworkers and acquaintances. Having been surrounded by these people I believe I have developed a relatively weak ego/low self-esteem over time -which of course...
I've been recently observing that I am surrounded by a lot of narcissistic people which include all kinds of relationships friends, family, coworkers and acquaintances. Having been surrounded by these people I believe I have developed a relatively weak ego/low self-esteem over time -which of course translates to suffering. I also have been doing some meditation related work which has made me stronger/confident and also I believe it is the reason I've been recently having clashes/fights with these kind of people.
Thus I wanted to understand narcissism from a deeper perspective of Dhamma. Modern psychology has it already in the dark triad personality traits, namely, narcissism, machiavellism and psychopathy. I watched and analyzed some videos from Jordan Peterson and some others; but I am shocked to find such a surprising lack of material and insights about this phenomenon from any good spiritual gurus, and even here on forums like stack-exchange, reddit etc. Thus I am making this post!
So I would like to plead here - kindly contribute any deep/thorough analysis of this trait both from classical sutras perspective and from your own understanding: giving arguments/analogies/reasonings for any assertions. Possibly include the following topics - deconstructing what narcissism actually is, what kind of mental states and defilements are involved, how to overcome those as a person who has narcissism and how to minimize the bad karma recieved while dealing with such people.
It may be a little bit of effort to write up properly, but I believe you sharing such valuable insights will be very helpful - for both people like me who have to deal with narcissistic people and also for others who want to fix their own narcissism and corresponding defilements. If anyone does contribute here, your efforts and insights are greatly appreciated, Thank you!
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