Possible ways to deal with spouse who ignored advice

My spouse's cousin who visits from other city, last time they visited my house, My spouse other family member played board games and cards which I did not like but my spouse assured me that she wouldn't play next time. As a head of house I am not comfortable my spouse playing board games, laughing loudly with a na mahram, initially when they use to visit my spouse never like him as well. Now that they visit us again, my spouse has been up all night or past midnight every night playing board games. I have been very stressed giving me sleepless night and annoyed because my spouse did the opposite of what I do not like What does Islam says about spouse engaging in activities that her husband has refrained from especially in this case where other is na marham and threaten to leave her when confronted by such talk? I know Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said to leave something that take away peace of heart, but I have kids with my spouse and I am afarid of breaking the family which will hurt our kids