Is Book of Genesis 3:14 to 3:19 supposed to be an example of Doomerism/Nihilism/Incelism?

>“I will make your pains in childbearing very severe; with painful labor you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.” Now most women are going to see relationships as transactional, trying to seek the most competent male. "He will rule over you" will make women more picky. It should inspire fear in the once equal with Adam, Eve? Who wants to be ruled by the poor, stupid, bad character male or the mediocre? >“Cursed is the ground because of you; through painful toil you will eat food from it all the days of your life. 18 It will produce thorns and thistles for you, and you will eat the plants of the field. 19 By the sweat of your brow you will eat your food until you return to the ground, since from it you were taken; for dust you are and to dust you will return.” Now, most men have to work hard to support a woman and themselves who thinks the relationship is a shortchanged/bad one. If I'm not seeing this correctly, why not?