To summarize what my sister did is she dated a non Muslim behind our backs and caused many problems and put our family through a lot of harm especially my mother. All my sisters(4) and my mother cut her off and I was the last one(this happened when I was 10). My dad still talks to her cause she is his favorite and he always is on her side in everything. There’re is still some family like my dad’s siblings who talk to her and have said what she did is normal. The thing is he converted to a Muslim so he can marry her. I personally have thought of talking to her again but every time I think about it or am going to she does something else like come to our house when me and my other sister are at school with our cousin and was being so rude to my mother and disrespecting her. This is only one of the many horrible things she has done. She was always really mean had anger issues. She would always make problems with our parents. I just find it really hard to go back and talk to her. Like what am I going to tell my kids when their grandparents want to celebrate Christmas with their grandkids? We asked her that and she said I don’t know. I don’t think I can raise my kids when her kids are going and getting boyfriends and doing the haram. What if my kids think that’s okay what am I supposed to do? I haven’t talked to her in 4 years and I have done some research on the matter and it says I can’t cut ties but I feel that it is very toxic.
Asked by T.O
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Mar 31, 2025, 05:45 AM