Help trying to find a sutta speaking of the pleasures of the householder

One of the suttas where the Buddha is critical of a monk as not living the holy life the right way and at the same time by not disrobing missing out on the pleasures of the householder's life. In effect the meaning was: missing out / depriving himself of both opportunities - not only the higher one but the lower one as well. ---------- **Update** Found the sutta, posted own answer. Thanks ruben2020 for sharing the dhammapada suggestion, and Yeshe for the formatting of my own answer.