Was the host of Wedding Feast at Cana a close relative or friend of Mother Mary?

We read in John 2:1-2: >**1** On the third day a wedding took place at Cana in Galilee. Jesus’ mother was there, **2** and Jesus and his disciples had also been invited to the wedding. See that the primary invitee to the *Wedding Feast* is Blessed Mother Mary. Verse 2 implies that Jesus & Company, 'care of' Mary, were **also** invited. Traditionally, we are made to believe that the host of the wedding feast was not a close relative of Jesus, in that he initially shows reflectance to intervene in the shortage of wine, a serious prestige issue for the host. But, the primary invitee being Mother Mary, it is quite possible that the host was a close relative or friend of hers. The Evangelist does not leave a clue. Are there some apocryphal writings on the issue?