How to deal with overtaking personal space and decision making?

Some time ago I had to deal with overtaking personal space and personal decision making by some close relatives. He/They were some family members (Not in the same house or family). They advised my family members regarding my studies, job, etc. And some of my family members took this advice and put pressure on me. I was really annoyed by that. I felt like they were trying to control me and make me a puppet. So, I was really annoyed and angry. According to Buddhism, how I/someone should manage these situations?