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how important is self forgiveness in karma ?

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I am trying to understand karma, I have and continue to read about intention and letting go. I am struggling with something. Could you help me ? A) If I acted (unwisely, unkindly, causing suffering), not knowing that what I was doing was wrong, and never realizing it to be wrong, I believe this is neutral. B) If I acted (unwisely, unkindly, causing suffering), ***while knowing*** that what I was doing was wrong, and ***continued to understand it to be wrong***, I believe this is bad. C) If I acted (unwisely, unkindly, causing suffering), ***while knowing*** that what I was doing was wrong, and ***then saw that the act resulted in something good***, I believe this is bad. D) If I acted (unwisely, unkindly, causing suffering), ***not knowing*** that what I was doing was wrong, and ***later realized it to be wrong***, I believe this is neutral. If (now that I understand) I harbor guilt and attach to this guilt I am doing bad. Here I am asked to forgive myself and move on. If I continue to wallow in the guilt then I am doing more bad. (assuming I am correct on A-C) the problem I have with D is likely based in the faith of my birth (catholic), where I was made to believe that guilt is really like a payment and the worst the act the longer you need to pay for it (like a monetary value) by continuing to hurt yourself with guilty feelings. in Buddhism, if attaching to guilt is bad, then how long do you need to feel it ? do you just move on as soon as you realize it was wrong ? If the suffering impacted someone else do they have a "say" in how long you cause yourself suffering (if not literally, then in some kind of moral equivalence that you calculate yourself ?) thank you for sharing your insight.
Asked by Mishtook (166 rep)
Mar 25, 2018, 08:35 PM
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